Sunday, December 08, 2024

THE MIND CAN WANDER ITS WAY THROUGH MANY CHANGES

 HURON HOSPICE PUT UP THEIR CHRISTMAS TREE TODAY
The phone rang this morning at 7:15 and it was Kelly and she was in distress.  I hurriedly dressed and headed for the Huron Hospice House.  The front door was locked but a cleaning lady let me in.  Kelly was in a state of agitation and I was able to round up a nurse person right away.  Unfortunately, as we have so often seen with medical facilities, it was yet another case of the left hand not knowing what the right hand was doing.  Not all of Kelly's medical condition info traveled from the Goderich Hospital to the Hospice.  Also, at Hospice they had pinned a call button to her jammy top yesterday but Kelly, in a fog from medications, forgot it was there.  When she needed help Saturday night (pain) and again early this morning she kept pressing a button on her bed that she thought was a call button and nobody came.  I was able to point that button out to her this morning and then go looking for someone to help her.  It was an unfortunate mis-start at the Hospice House but things immediately began looking up after everyone quickly began to reorganize.  She became more lucid and asked for scrambled eggs and toast for breakfast although she didn't eat much of it.  After they finally got her meds straightened out she took several pain bills and became sleepy.  It was now around 9 a.m. and she drifted off to sleep.  I took advantage of that, slipped into Clinton to gas up the car, grabbed a Tim Horton's coffee, and headed home to get Pheebs some breakfast.  Pheebs is such a patient and darling little angel.  With my laptop in tow, I was soon back to Hospice where I found Kelly sitting up and feeling better.  At the Goderich hospital, l they had been giving her oxygen but it was 'another piece of information' Hospice didn't know about.  Luckily, when I told them about the oxygen, they brought in an oxygen machine and got her started on that.  I called Sabra and she was already on her way from Cambridge.  A couple nurses came in and helped Kelly get her jammies changed and gave her a clean-up.  Sabra rolled in somewhere around noon I think.  Thankfully, it was Sabra to the rescue again and she had brought an overnight bag with her and plans to stay with her mother 24/7.  

 HOW WONDERFUL TO BE DRIVING ON BARE ROADS WITH UNLIMITED VISIBILITY TODAY
WHILE FILLING UP WITH GAS AT A CLINTON SHELL STATION THIS MORNING I SPOTTED THIS SIGN
And, in my own fog, I forgot to publish my Saturday post to the blog.  I remembered to copy and paste it to Facebook, but not to Blogger.  I did post it this afternoon so for anyone who couldn't find it, it's up and published now under the title..Kelly Is Now At Huron Hospice West Of Clinton Ontario

What a treat this morning to finally wake up with milder temperatures and no blowing snow.  Roads were bare and free of snow and ice as well.  I almost felt joyous.  With Sabra now at Huron Hospice, I headed home.  I felt exhausted and kind of sickish and needed something to eat so I warmed up some Cream of Chicken soup that we had bought a couple weeks ago at Jerry Raders in Zurich, Ontario.  It tasted great along with two pieces of toast.  That took care of my sickish feeling, but oh dear....... my shattered nerves:((  

 SOME READERS HAD ASKED THE ADDRESS OF HURON HOSPICE
It was 3:45 when I headed back to Huron Hospice.  Kelly's sons Ben and Jason were still there but heading out shortly.  Kelly, tired and in true fashion said to the boys, 'It's time for you boys to go home now'.  I stepped out into the hall as sad goodbyes were said then Sabra, Ben, Jason, and I walked outside to the cars.  It was nice to feel the late afternoon's milder winter air.  It reminded me of Spring.

 A FEW PHOTOS TAKEN BY SABRA AND JASON THIS AFTERNOON
 JASON

I asked Kelly today if she would like me to bring Pheebs in to see her but she shook her head 'no'.  Maybe she will change her mind, we'll see.  In this final phase of life, the mind can wander its way through many changes.

 BEN FILLING UP A BIRDFEEDER OUTSIDE OF KELLY'S WINDOW

Al's Music Box:)) Both Sides Now is a song by Canadian singer-songwriter Joni Michell.  It was included on Mitchell's album 'Clouds', and became one of her best-known songs. It has since been recorded by dozens of artists, including Dion in 1968, Clannad with Paul Young in 1991, and Mitchell herself, who re-recorded the song with an orchestral arrangement on her 2000 album Both Sides Now.  In 2004, Rolling Stone ranked "Both Sides, Now" at number 170 on its list of the 500 Greatest Songs.  Mitchell has said that "Both Sides, Now" was inspired by a passage in Henderson the Rain King, a 1959 novel by Saul Bellow.  I was reading ... Henderson the Rain King on a plane and early in the book Henderson is also up in a plane. He's on his way to Africa and he looks down and sees these clouds. I put down the book, looked out the window and saw clouds too, and I immediately started writing the song. I had no idea that the song would become as popular as it did.  "Both Sides, Now" appears in the album Joni Mitchell: Live at the Second Fret 1966 (2014, All Access Records, AACD0120), a live performance on November 17, 1966, from The Second Fret in Philadelphia, PA, which was broadcast live by WRTI, Temple University's radio station. This suggests that Mitchell wrote the song before 1967 (the year of composition cited in the Los Angeles Times article above) and precedes the first Judy Collins release in 1967.  Mitchell re-recorded the song in a lush, orchestrated fashion for her 2000 album Both Sides Now. The recording won arranger Vince Mendoza a Grammy Award for Best Instrumental Arrangement Accompanying Vocalist.  In April 2000, two months after the album's release, Mitchell sang the song with a 70-piece orchestra at the end of an all-star celebration for her at the Hamerstein Ballroom in New York City.  The 2000 version is played during an emotional scene featuring Emma Thompson in the 2003 film Love Actually.  It was also played during the 2010 Winter Olympics opening ceremony.

 SABRA TOOK THIS PHOTO FRIDAY AFTERNOON
GROANER'S CORNER:(( A tough old cowboy once counseled his grandson that if he wanted to live a long life, the secret was to sprinkle a little gunpowder on his oatmeal every morning.  The grandson did this religiously and he lived to the age of 93.  When he died, he left 14 children, 28 grandchildren, 35 great-grandchildren and a fifteen-foot hole in the wall of the crematorium.
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17 comments:

  1. What more is there for your followers to say ? We can see the love and devotion in you, and Kelly's children, and Pheebs would be sad beyond belief if she visited Kelly at this time. Animals grieve also. :(

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  2. (Kawartha Gal)
    So sad for all of you…💔

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  3. You are her warrior now. And you are doing a great job. I'm glad Kelly's kids are there too. It is so hard! You can do this!

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  4. It's an awful oversight for
    them not to have given
    Kelly pain meds and
    oxygen when she needed
    them,and fortunate that
    you,were there to inform
    them about it.I am glad
    Kelly's sons visited her.
    Pheebs has known all of
    her life that Kelly loves her
    she won't forget that with
    or without more visits .
    You're doing all the right
    stuff,Al, I hope you sleep well tonight -Mary

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  5. This brought tears to my eyes, remembering my family members who were in Hospice, it's so hard. Good that she was able to call you. Kelly may not want to say goodbye to her precious Pheebs. Prayers for her comfort and the family.

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  6. My heart is breaking... I've been a long time reader of your blog Al and I can't say enough about how well you seem to be handling this for Kelly's sake but I know you have your moments of overwhelming sadness. Kelly, you and her family have been in my prayers. Tears were rolling down my cheeks as I looked at the photos tonight. God bless her.. she's such a trouper. Thank you Al for keeping us posted, its important for all us. The Bayfield Bunch has been in my life for ages.. and it goes back to 50plus when we were all members of that forum. (Bev Ward in Nanaimo).


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  7. Sending hugs to you All during this very sad time. I hope you know how much all of us care about Kelly, Pheebs and you!

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  8. Happy to see that Kelly's daughter and sons are there with her and you. Not an easy time. Continued prayers for Kelly, her children and you. Please take care of yourself also.

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  9. So glad Kelly was able to call you for help. Rest well tonight. A tough day that turned out for you both. Hopefully, Kelly will sleep well tonight. Her daughter is a life saver for both of you. Saying a prayer tonight.

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  10. You have our continued prayers and support- Mary Lou

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  11. Continued prayers for the Bayfield Bunch. That’s an interesting tidbit on Joni Mitchell, Al. She was living in the Verona Apartments in Detroit at the time and could have very well written Both Sides Now in that building. Gordon Lightfoot used to visit her and her then-husband there.

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  12. I feel so sad for you Al. But I am so
    grateful you are sharing your love
    story with us. Brings back both sad
    and happy memories of Jim. President Russel M. Nelson of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has said:
    "Irrespective of age, we mourn for
    those loved and lost. Mourning is one
    of the deepest expressions of pure
    love..
    Moreover, we can't fully appreciate
    joyful reunions later without tearful
    separations now. The only way to take
    sorrow out of death is to take love out
    of life".
    My prayers are that you can find peace and know that love transcends death.


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  13. Prayers for the Bayfield Bunch and Kelly"s kids and family. We will all carry Kelly in our hearts . The warrior needs rest.

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  14. I see a lot of love and care for Kelly in those pictures of her in the Hospice room with her loved ones.

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  15. Thank you Al for sharing with us. So many of your readers have felt part of the Bayfield Bunch for many years. Whether following the Bunch’s travels or being inspired to take to the RV road ourselves.We all have you both in our thoughts and prayers.
    Joanne xx


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  16. Good to see the kids there with their mom, and I know having Sabra there gives everyone peace of mind. Pheebs may be just one too many good-byes for now. Glad Kelly's care information got straightened out and she's able to be comfortable in her lovely space. Love the homey Santa additions to the gallery. I'm a big fan :-)

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  17. A lifetime of love for you and Kelly and her kids and Pheebs.....love never dies.

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