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FROM THE GOOD FOLKS AT THE BAYFIELD PINES |
Looking out the window first thing this morning I noticed right away how much the snow pack had gone down with yesterday's and last night's milder temperatures. An emotional boost for sure. While warming up the car, Richard popped in for a couple minutes before I took Pheebs for a short car ride. I think it was nearly a week since I had last taken Pheebs for a car ride around the block.
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THE VIEW FROM KELLY'S WINDOW IS A LITTLE BIT LIKE HOME WITH ALL THE PINE TREES |
I headed off to the Huron Hospice House around 10:30 raining all the way. Sabra said they didn't have the best night with Kelly being very restless. Being on a lot of pain medication she kind of drifted in and out all the time I was there. A nice potted plant and card from the folks at our Bayfield Pines Park rolled in about 12:45. I big thank you to all you kind folks here in the Park. Kelly had been sleeping but as soon as she heard me unwrapping the plant she opened her eyes and wanted to hold it.
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A CARD LEFT IN OUR DOOR FROM GOOD FRIENDS CARIN AND CHRIS |
I came home about 1:30 to let Pheebs out and fix myself up a veggie shake. A nice card in the door from our friends Carin and Chris in the Park. I must have dozed off for a couple minutes in my recliner when the phone rang. It was Sabra saying a doctor would be in to see Kelly in about 30 minutes so I quickly headed myself back to Hospice. It is a Clinton doctor who does rounds at Huron Hospice and he came in shortly after 4 p.m. Although under pain medication, Kelly was able to talk with the doctor and it was agreed to increase her pain meds. Her bouts of consciousness are becoming less and her breathing has slowed. I returned home for a short period of time and then went back to Hospice after supper through a pea souper of a fog. I was again reminded of a late Spring night in March. We met with a second doctor regarding Kelly's care and this doctor even had his dog with him. I stayed until about 8:30 before heading home. Sabra is again staying with her Mother for the night on a fold-out couch in Kelly's room. I'm so thankful for Sabra being there. Tonight, I am totally drained.......
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SAYING GOODNIGHT |
Al's Music Box:)) The Homecoming is a 1975 album by Canadian composer, pianist, and vibraphonist Hagood Hardy. Six of the tracks were composed by Hardy. The album also contained fellow Canadian musician Gordon Lightfoot's song "Cold on the Shoulder" and five songs by other songwriters. It reached the RPM Magazine Top Albums chart in October, 1975. The Homecoming", started out as music to a 1972 TV commercial for Salada tea. After being included in this album, it was released as a single in 1975 on the Isis label through the Toronto company, Hagood Hardy Productions. It rose to #14 on the Canadian charts, and to #41 on the pop and #6 on the easy listening US charts. It was certified Gold in Canada.
GROANER'S CORNER:(( And your opinion would be::?? - I started out with nothing & still have most of it left.- If I want to hear the pitter patter of little feet, I'll put shoes on my cats.
- Does your train of thought have a caboose?
- Suburbia: where they tear out the trees & then name streets after them.
- Well, this day was a total waste of makeup.
- See no evil, hear no evil, date no evil.
- Stress is when you wake up screaming & you realize you haven't fallen asleep yet.
- Too many freaks, not enough circuses.
- Nice perfume. Must you marinate in it?
Chaos, panic, & disorder - my work here is done.----------------------------------------------
An English man, French, Italian, and German are standing at the side of a street watching a street performer. The street performer noticed that they all have poor eyesight so he asked them whether they can see him and they responded: "Yes" "Oui" "Sì" "Ja"
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Baby 1: I'm a boy.
Baby 2: prove it.
Baby 1: Not in front of the nurse.
Baby 2: Okay The nurse leaves
Baby 2: Prove it.
Baby 1: Look, blue socks...
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Al's Doggy World
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THIS IS NOW MY WAY |
Al's Art Gallery
Though your loss will be painful, and you will feel empty, it is better to cherish Kelly in your memories, that to see her suffer. You will have to sadly let her go.
ReplyDeleteAl is there anything we can do for you? ❤️
ReplyDeleteMy heart breaks for you, & hearing your words & seeing the photos of Kelly brings back memories of the final days before I lost Dave. There aren't words to describe the helplessness I felt then, even while just wanting him to be out of pain. I'm so glad Sabra can be there for you both.
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No words....heart ache for you all💔
ReplyDeleteLinda a.
Al I am so sorry you and Kelly’s children are having to navigate this journey. Hospice care is the best place for her. Know that there are many people sending prayers, love and best wishes to you all. Kelly sure is a fighter so won’t give up without one last push. Al, take care of yourself and Pheebs as you start to transition to your journey without your copilot, it’s gonna be hard but you will get through it by leaning on family and community (real and virtual).
ReplyDeleteWe all wish there was something we could do, but there is nothing we can. You are not alone Al.
ReplyDeleteMy prayers are with all of you during these days. May you be comforted knowing that so many are keeping you in their prayers.
ReplyDeleteIt is comforting to know that Sabra is able to be there for both of you. You should take comfort in knowing they will be more attentive to easing Kelly’s pain, making her as comfortable as possible.
ReplyDeleteDeb
Thank you again for sharing this journey with us. Peace be with you and your loved ones.
ReplyDeleteWarmer temps, less snow
ReplyDeleteseeing Richard, taking
Pheebs for a ride, I'm glad.
you had a nice morning Spending time with Kelly
is as precious as it's always been, I hope Sabra
Kelly, Pheebs and you
sleep well tonight -Mary
May God, which surpasses all understanding, gaurd you and keep you. May his face shine upon you and grant you peace. Much love to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you all ,it is a hard thing to go thorugh,it is 9 years ago that i went threw this to ,hang in there AL and family.Sharon Overholt.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you all. So good that Sarbra is there with her. Comfort and peace to all of you.
ReplyDeleteThoughts are with you all..thankyou for sharing these tender moments..so happy to see tht
ReplyDeleteSabra..is able to stay with her mom..24/7..and that the boys were able to get up and see..Kelly..prayers are with you Al..and the extended family..and With Kelly..as she navigates through this journey..to her Heavenly home..🤗🙏🏼🦋💗🦋..🙏🏼🤗
ReplyDeleteThe boys were able to get up too..thoughts re with Kelly as she navigates this journey to her heavenly home..🤗🙏🏼🦋💗🦋🙏🏼🤗
ReplyDeleteKelly has flowers, family, and the stones on her card, like an Inukshuk, to guide her on the way. Thoughts with you and the family as you too travel the road together.
ReplyDeleteNo words that you haven't already heard or read so just know that we are with you both on this journey, Kelly's last. She will know when it is time to let go, give her that permission. She may not want anyone around, at least that is the way it was with Mom. Bless you all.
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