Oh My, what a difference a good night's sleep can make. I'm feeling so much better compared to the past four or five days. I was almost afraid to part the curtains this morning expecting to see another foot of snow out there. Luckily, we got off with a light dusting. At this time and under the circumstances, every little bit helps. I still had a craving for orange juice and despite a snow squall warning in our area, I headed into Bayfield in hopes of finding the Foodland grocery store open. It was and I grabbed a jug of juice, slipped back out to the car, open it, and swamped down nearly a third of the jug. I thought of Richard and Gayle and called there place to see if they needed anything from Foodland. Gayle said two loaves of cheese bread would make her day. Richard wasn't home because he was in the hospital so I drove the two loaves of Cheesebread over to their place. Their long lane hadn't been plowed yet this morning but with the all-wheel drive Subaru, I didn't have any problem getting those loaves of Cheesebread delivered. Desperately needing something to feel good about, this little deed was a lifesaver. But then it got even better. Richard was released from the Clinton hospital and I was able to slip over to Clinton later, scoop him up, and take him home. Now my 'feeling good' was over the Moon. From Richard and Gayles I immediately made fast tracks for the Goderich Hospital with a much neede stop at Walmart first. From there it was on to the hospital. It had probably been nearly a week since I last saw Kelly and with this head and chest cold finally out of my system, I felt comfortable enough that I wouldn't infect her or the hospital staff. As a precaution, I wore a face mask.
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A COUPLE SNOWY MAIL BOXES ALONG THE WAY TODAY |
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WE'VE NEVER HAD THIS MUCH SNOW ON OUR REAR DECK BEFORE |
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OUR SNOWY STREET THIS MORNING |
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THE GARBAGE RECYCLING TRUCK HAS NOT MADE IT INTO OUR PARK YET |
So, there has been a change in thinking that has led to a change of plans today regarding Kelly's health care. Paperwork has been submitted to a hospice center near Clinton. It's in the countryside and only a short 15-minute drive from our house. We're hoping to know tomorrow if we can get her in there.......Kelly's condition is slowly deteriorating and both Sabra and I could see that today. But, despite that, Kelly's spirit is still there. It may not be in fighting mode any longer but it is in 'acceptance' mode and we can comfortably talk about things. Sabra is staying in Goderich an extra night and will be back with her Mom tomorrow as well as myself. Sabra, like her Mother, is good at organizing things and getting things done and that is a big help for me as well.
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AT THE HOSPITAL THIS AFTERNOON |
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KELLY'S TALKING TO HER LONDON LIVER DOCTOR AND THANKING HIM FOR ALL THE HELP HE HAS BEEN TO HER FOR THESE PAST NUMBER OF YEARS |
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SABRA AND I LISTENED TO THEIR CONVERSATION |
The weather wasn't the best for driving today but luckily, snowplows had been out in force. Just some blowing snow and a couple small snow drifts to plow through. I have a lot of experience of punching my way through snowstorms over the years. Plus, I'm 'supposedly' at an old and wiser state of my life now where I don't listen to that foolishly rambunctious teenager inside of me saying, 'So what if the road ain't plowed, I can make it through' 'Watch this boys'!! Oh Dear, I was such a 'show-off' in those teenage years:(( But then again, what male teenager isn't.
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TODAY'S DRIVING CONDITIONS |
Al's Music Box:)) Close To You is a song written by Burt Bacharach and Hal David with sections of the early version written by Cathy Steeves. The best-known version is that recorded by the American duo the Carpenters for their second studio album Close to You (1970) and produced by Jack Daugherty. It was released on May 14, 1970. The record was certified gold and became their breakthrough hit. Believing the original title to be too long, Richard Carpenter added parentheses around In 2018, Billboard ranked "Close to You" the top single of the summer of 1970. Bacharach and David gave Herb Alpert the song after he scored a number one hit in 1968 with "This Guy's in Love with You", which the duo had also written. Alpert recorded the song, but he was displeased with the recording and did not release it. After the Carpenters achieved their first chart success with "Ticket to Ride" in 1969, Alpert approached them to record their version of the song, believing it was well-suited for them. With some reluctance, Richard Carpenter worked up an arrangement but wasn't keen on it. He expected the matter to pass without further word. A short time later, word circulated back to Richard and Karen that Herb "really wanted them" to record the song. Knowing he and Karen were in a vulnerable position with the label after the dismal chart performance of "Ticket to Ride", Richard went back to work. Carpenter and Alpert collaborated on the song, and the finished product for the album was 4 minutes and 36 seconds. When A&M Records decided to remove the extended coda and release it as a 3-minute, 40-second long single in May 1970, it became A&M's biggest hit since Alpert's "This Guy's in Love with You." "(They Long to Be) Close to You" earned the Carpenters a Grammy Award for Best Contemporary Performance by a Duo, Group, or Chorus in 1971. It became the first of three Grammy Awards they would win during their careers. The song was certified gold by the recording Richard had originally written with the flugelhorn solo part for Herb Alpert but when he was unavailable at the time of recording, Chuck Findley was hired in his stead. Richard later commented: "Chuck didn't play it that way at first, but I worked with him and he nailed it. A lot of people thought it was Herb Alpert playing it. Bacharach thought so, too. But it's the way Findley is playing it." The arrangement was completely different from the version Bacharach cut with Richard Chamberlain, with one exception. When Richard Carpenter asked Bacharach for permission (as a courtesy) to redo the song, Bacharach requested that he keep the two "quintuplets" (five-note groupings" (piano ornaments) at the end of the first bridge. Bacharach recalled his initial reaction on hearing the finished product: "Man, this is just great! I completely blew it with Richard Chamberlain but now someone else has come along and made a record so much better than mine."
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ReplyDeleteorange juice all the things
that made you happy were
done for other people Al
You are such a nice guy
Kelly going to hospice that
close to home is great
Praying that you , Kelly.
and Pheebs have a good and blessed night -Mary
Been following you since you guys moved. Sorry to hear that Kelly is going into hospice. We do miss our Canadian Cowboy down here. Prayers to both of you.
ReplyDeleteGood to hear Kelly will be going hospice. It's a much nicer environment than the hospital. Sending hugs to all of you. How's Pheebs?
ReplyDeleteHope Kelly can into Hospice soon and she will get very good care.
ReplyDeleteSo nice Sabra can help her Mom and you with taking care of things.
A very hard time for all of you.
Hugs and prayers to the family .
Sabra sounds like just the right person at the right time, as you were for Gayle and Richard.. Really a good addition to the mix. One day at a time.
ReplyDelete..or one hour, one minute or one second at a time. Don't forget to breathe.
DeleteSending more love to you today.
I'm sure Kelly is glad that Sabra is taking care of things. Praying for all.
ReplyDeleteSo nice that Sabra is able to be there to help her mom and you get Kelly into Hospice. Continued prayers and thoughts for you all.
ReplyDeleteGlad you got a good night's sleep, Al. Hope Kelly moves the hospice care center near Clinton and she is able to rest without pain. It's great that Sabra is there for both of you.
ReplyDeleteYou can have hospice
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home, Al, check into it, I looked online and found that's what most people
do in Canada and the USA
--Mary
Sending strength to you, Pheebs, Kelly, and her kids.You and Sabra are doing a great job making tough decisions with Kelly. If it’s the place I’m thinking of, that hospice is lovely with caring folks and scenic views that will ease most pains. My fingers are crossed you get a spot there quickly and the transition is smooth. I’ve had that cold too - glad it’s passing! And wow - what a lot of snow we’re getting this year! I’m holding you all close in my heart from London (Ont)
ReplyDeleteI am thinking of you all and holding you close in my heart. I have been there and done that and know how hard it is for everyone.
ReplyDeleteHello, Al. I haven't been saying much as I follow along on the journey you and Kelly are taking. It is heart wrenching, and yet your resilience and Kelly's bravery are an incredible inspiration as well. I have been thinking of you, remembering all those years you traveled and we passed each other, only meeting once. But you and Kelly are icons for all the old time RV'rs. I learned so much from you and I thank you. I know that writing and photography is your only way to deal with what is happening and I am glad you have that to help you through this time. I know I haven't said anything for a time, but that is basically because I just think my words from such a distance of time and space are just a tiny drop in the wilderness of your life. Sending much love to both of you.
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DeleteWe have all learned a lot of useful information and knowledge from Al & Kelly. As you stated Yes they’re icons in the world of Raving!
That mask, worn on your chin, is not doing any good in containing your virus. Please cover your mouth and nose so as to not to pass on the virus.
ReplyDeleteI am happy Kelly may make it into hospice, they generally have excellent staff.
Al
ReplyDeleteYou and Kelly are in our hearts and prayers. My wife and I have followed your travels for many years now. I find it hard to imagine how Kelly is feeling right now. I watched my Father go through basically what Kelly is experiencing.
I hope that you and Kelly and your family have a wonderful time together. I’m happy for both of you that you’re doing good about getting Kelly in the hospice care program close to your home. Bless you and your family please keep us updated and give Kelly and warm hugs and regards from my wife and I.
Pat
Al
ReplyDeleteIn my last post I forgot to mention Pheebs. Where I said give Kelly and warm hugs.
Mail boxes with snow bonnets!!! A 15 minute drive will be so much easier for you, A difficult time to accept what is, and be thankful for what once was. Greetings from down in NZ, I hop from the Furry Gnome to you.
ReplyDeleteHospice care is wonderful. My dear Mom was treated with such dignity and love. The staff include the entire family in that care. Continued peace as you all travel this journey.
ReplyDeleteHoping Kelly can go to Hospice soon, and I am glad you are feeling better. I am holding you both close in my heart. It's so good that Sabra is with her.
ReplyDeleteLove jean
Love the tall snow on the little house - it's as big as the building :-) Hospice close to home would be a great option, I'm still grateful after all these years for the care they gave my mom. I cringe at the teenager that was me behind the wheel in the wilds of the SoCal desert :-))) Love the black kitty on the bench. If I were braver I'd love a piece of the colorful coffee girl as a tattoo!
ReplyDeletePrayers and positive thoughts and soft hugs and peace are being sent to you, Al and Kelly and Pheebs.
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p.s. We know you pulled your mask down just for the photo taking.
Remember: One Day At A Time
Sending much prayer asking God to help Kelly during her transition in the peaceful and everlasting life that God holds for her. 🌈🤍🕊️
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