Been sitting here a long while at the keyboard tonight waiting for today’s words to come. My mind fails me. The day’s memories are sharp but my thoughts are lost, my feelings scattered. It was a day of sadness, a day of hope. It was a day of reflection, a day of remembrance. I saw tears & I saw laughter. And we all said good-bye to Uncle Harry.
Our heart felt sympathy. He would probably have told you that he had a good life; he was getting tired and his quality of life wasn't the same. These were words from my almost 101 year old Mom. Enjoy those wonderful memories!
We went to visit Aunt Happy today and she was really missing Uncle Don. She is still going strong and yet I can also see some loss in memory for her. So I'm trying to build as many memories as I can while I can. And I know that is what you did with Uncle Harry. He would tell you to rejoice for him because he is no longer in pain, no longer lonely. Still it's hard for us who are still here. Hugs to you and Kelly.
Our thoughts are with you today, its not an easy time. But you do have some wonderful memories of Uncle Harry that you have shared with us too. Precious moments to cherish. Thinking of you, Kelly and Aunt Jean.
You have a special gift. You find exactly the right words to communicate your feelings to us. We share your grief, and understand how it is. Take heart from the warmth, love, and support here in these comments.
That is a wonderful picture of Uncle Harry. In the days to come, I'm sure you will be doing lots of remembering. It's good to remember good times.
A hard day and words expressed so eloquently. We can all hope to live such a long and wonderful life. My heartfelt sympathy for you and your loved ones.
sending our deepest condolences on this sad day. Uncle Harry had a great life thanks to you and Kelly and the 'Pheebes'. May the memories you have of him fill your heart with love.
The moon tonight was beautiful ...... A classic crescent in a glowing golden color ...... It seems I communicate best with my dear Dad while viewing the moon, sometimes full and over flowing, sometimes washed in clouds, sometimes hiding all together and playing hard to get ..... Each brings such special memories and a warm conversation ....those moments keep my heart happy and my love alive ..... Tonight for you, Kelly and Aunt Jean my thoughts centered around Uncle Harry glowing on that beautiful crescent grateful for all the love and care all of you shared with him.....RIP Uncle Harry ....
Al, Kelly and Pheebers: My sincere condolences on the loss of Uncle Harry. I wish I had some words of wisdom on how to deal with loss. My son died March 12. I have no idea how to deal with it. Blessings, Jool
I guess that's the best epitaph I could hope for when I pass "a day of sadness, a day of hope... a day of reflection...remembrance...tears & laughter." God Bless. Box Canyon Mark
Our heart felt sympathy. He would probably have told you that he had a good life; he was getting tired and his quality of life wasn't the same. These were words from my almost 101 year old Mom. Enjoy those wonderful memories!
ReplyDeleteWe went to visit Aunt Happy today and she was really missing Uncle Don. She is still going strong and yet I can also see some loss in memory for her. So I'm trying to build as many memories as I can while I can. And I know that is what you did with Uncle Harry. He would tell you to rejoice for him because he is no longer in pain, no longer lonely. Still it's hard for us who are still here. Hugs to you and Kelly.
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts are with you today, its not an easy time.
ReplyDeleteBut you do have some wonderful memories of Uncle Harry that you have shared with us too. Precious moments to cherish.
Thinking of you, Kelly and Aunt Jean.
Ahh, and nothing else can be expected..Rememberance and memories and love all around...
ReplyDeleteIt is sad to have to say goodbye but I have found I still have conversations with my Dad, only now I use my heart to listen rather than my ears.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes, thinking of you. Chinle
ReplyDeleteA beautiful post with tenderness for the memory of Uncle Harry. God bless you and Kelly. Sue
ReplyDeleteIn my heart, I share your thoughts and feelings. Peace.
ReplyDeleteYou have a special gift. You find exactly the right words to communicate your feelings to us. We share your grief, and understand how it is. Take heart from the warmth, love, and support here in these comments.
ReplyDeleteThat is a wonderful picture of Uncle Harry. In the days to come, I'm sure you will be doing lots of remembering. It's good to remember good times.
That's how it is when the good guys go...a mixture of sadness and love...but I hope it was mostly love...be gentle with yourself for a while.
ReplyDeleteA hard day and words expressed so eloquently. We can all hope to live such a long and wonderful life.
ReplyDeleteMy heartfelt sympathy for you and your loved ones.
My condolences -- your life has been enriched having him in it. Treasure the memories...hugs.
ReplyDeleteSometimes words just can't express ones feelings....
ReplyDeleteMy heart is heavy with yours today AL,
God bless Uncle Harry and all of you as well during this sad time!
ReplyDeletesending our deepest condolences on this sad day. Uncle Harry had a great life thanks to you and Kelly and the 'Pheebes'. May the memories you have of him fill your heart with love.
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ReplyDeleteThe moon tonight was beautiful ...... A classic crescent in a glowing golden color ...... It seems I communicate best with my dear Dad while viewing the moon, sometimes full and over flowing, sometimes washed in clouds, sometimes hiding all together and playing hard to get ..... Each brings such special memories and a warm conversation ....those moments keep my heart happy and my love alive ..... Tonight for you, Kelly and Aunt Jean my thoughts centered around Uncle Harry glowing on that beautiful crescent grateful for all the love and care all of you shared with him.....RIP Uncle Harry ....
Well said Al, very well said. Thank you for sharing your Uncle Harry with us here in blogging world.
ReplyDeleteOur condolences. Thoughts are with you.
ReplyDeleteAl, Kelly and Pheebers:
ReplyDeleteMy sincere condolences on the loss of Uncle Harry.
I wish I had some words of wisdom on how to deal with loss. My son died March 12. I have no idea how to deal with it.
Blessings, Jool
Very sorry for your loss of Uncle Harry. May your memories of him fill you with joy.
ReplyDeleteI guess that's the best epitaph I could hope for when I pass "a day of sadness, a day of hope... a day of reflection...remembrance...tears & laughter."
ReplyDeleteGod Bless.
Box Canyon Mark
We all should live our life to the fullest,like Uncle Harry...What a run..
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